tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-31433951127815118912024-03-14T00:39:13.232-07:00Behind the Scenes of MSA look at life "Behind the Scenes of MS"Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.comBlogger79125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-32427453260034230922018-05-30T21:18:00.001-07:002018-05-30T21:18:42.383-07:00Healthy<p dir="ltr">It's crazy! I find myself thinking about this blog or I guess more to the point feeling the need to rant the most when I feel like death. When I am actually doing pretty good, I forget. Tonight I feel fine. Thanks!<br>
Foot still does want/need the heated blanket to avoid pain from being numb, but otherwise I am actually doing pretty good. I feel healthy! <br>
So why am I posting? Mainly so years from now when I look back and read these posts, I can remind myself, I did have good days!<br>
Please do me a favor- leave me a comment! Let me know what your thoughts are. What you struggle with. What made you stop and read my post- thank you by the way!!! Let me know what keeps you going!!! I'd love to hear from you!!! Have a great day!</p>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-59119375196489754222018-03-31T18:47:00.001-07:002018-03-31T18:47:52.672-07:00Optic Nerve check-ups<p dir="ltr">Eye appointments are supposed to be a routine part of life. Well add MS and the word routine begins to mean nothing. I celebrated too early today at my appointment today. No changes in my prescription!! It was awesome! Then came the dilation part of my exam. Looking at my optic nerves, not only has my right one gotten worse but now my left one is showing signs of issues.<br>
It was such a blow! I had my MRI on my birthday and I haven't gotten the results and now I don't feel so good about it. My medication seemingly has been working. So this just breaks my heart!!<br></p>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-61634095510645657492018-03-05T09:03:00.001-08:002018-03-05T09:11:02.728-08:00Allergies, MS- What's next?Going to the Dr is a pain in the butt for any reason. Add having to list off the names of medications you take (and spell them), it becomes a 3 ring circus. What is that for? I have never heard of that? What is the dose? And my personal favorite- I can't find that in the system, could it be something different? I literally have a piece of paper that has my 7 prescriptions (and 2 as needed) written down. Then I have a drawer of "just in case" meds. Yes, that is truly a life of "Behind the Scenes". Every time something comes I fear the looks, the questions, the judgment. But I have been rather fortunate. Maybe its my attitude. I know shocker- right? I am quick to defer to the Dr anytime they want to recommend something.
Case in point, my continued struggles with my chest, cough, sinuses. Going on week 5, following Dr.'s orders my husband woke me up after a night of pretty much no sleep, (at that point I had slept 30 minutes), to go get a chest x-ray. With pneumonia ruled out (thank God) the focus went back to my allergies. I swear, as the years have gone by I have become more and more sensitive to things, foods, pollen, etc. Having been to the allergy doctor and lit up like the 4th of July during testing, I really didn't want to just jump into shots. But after this past several weeks of misery, I'm over it. I just really hope that it will make a difference because I am not going to go through that only to be miserable.
Wondering if I should call and just bite the bullet and start now? Or wait my "follow up" appointment at the end of the month and let them know, the meds were a total failure, I ended up at the Minute Clinic twice, and Urgent care once and a total of 7 prescriptions (1 the first visit, 2 the second, and 4 the 3rd) later, I am finally able to go the morning without a box of tissues or need a cough drop (or cough up phlegm- sorry). So while my cough syrup tastes like some sort of butterscotch rum "shot" mixture (glad I didn't go with the codeine one!!) I am glad I can work and not have people look at me as though HAZMAT might need to pay me a visit. -Maybe they should just to be on the safe side. Trust me I have sprayed enough Lysol at work that I am pretty sure I have napalmed every germ from here back to Pinellas. Can't be too careful. I guess my biggest issue is the shots... I was SO happy when I was able to stop taking shots for my MS. With muscle atrophy in my arms and legs, I am NOT looking forward to this. So yeah...
For the record- I do NOT want anything NEXT! Well maybe to lost 10 pounds, but only if its healthy, I don't need to lose a 10lbs tumor and have that scare hang over me. Plus, I have enough scars! Unless I get a tummy tuck out of the deal- FORGET IT!!
Hope you enjoy the little glances "Behind the scenes of MS" it isn't always pretty, but it's LIVING! And that's most important! Leave a comment, let me know your thoughts, experiences and what you have done to "get through"... Keep on being a warrior!
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-66308622762770581962018-03-01T21:16:00.000-08:002018-03-05T08:15:38.781-08:00AngryThe tears streams down my face faster than I could control. I felt like a complete total failure as the dentist confirmed what the hygienist said so matter of factly, as if it were no big deal. My broken filling had affected the bone around the tooth, and after 7 years of neglect, it was too late. The worst part, I had already planned it out. Cleaning this month, root canal and crown the following month.
But as the tears flowed the dentist seemed to not understand my loss.
But then he didn't understand why it had been over 7 years.
He didn't realize that as a mother in those years I now have 2 kids that went through braces, 3 kids that had all 4 wisdom teeth out (2 that had 4 more), that I had my gallbladder removed. Or that sitting in a chair while they take a wire and use an xray to guide it to through your breast while talking to you and telling you everything will be fine- the wire helps guarantee they don't have to remove as much... Yeah, I did fix my other tooth when I couldn't take it anymore. I know, 10 years in the field and I was "that person". But I put everyone first. Made sure everyone got the glasses they needed. And yes, I know, I am blessed to have had an FSA account. But it was gone! And any time I needed it for my tooth... It was gone... I had to hope for the next year and pray my MS didn't take a turn for the worse or my meds didn't double in price.
Tomorrow I am putting up a fight. It's early in the year. And while I have money, I am fighting for a bone graft! MS or not- I deserve some one to try. But for now, I am ANGRY! Angry at myself for letting it get like this, angry that I had to make choices in my health care and put priorities on what was most important at the cost of other things. And angry that my frustration at the situation is not completely understood. Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-82047841787795669862018-01-28T14:41:00.001-08:002018-01-28T14:41:27.023-08:00Cold/ Flu<p dir="ltr">Wow! I seriously just lost a week of my life. While I had my cell phone and could have blogged about the horrible cold turn flu, having the strength to do anything was a stretch. Thankfully my side of the bed is right next to the bathroom. I actually would remind myself daily not to smell! I mean I seriously felt like a parent of a newborn. Thank goodness for an awesome husband that helped keep track of days/time/ and meals! Just crazy! <br>
I am finally starting to feel sorta better. I can breathe and my chest doesn't feel like a brick on it. <br>
Good to feel alive!</p>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-79768904762057315202018-01-19T11:37:00.001-08:002018-01-19T11:37:09.582-08:00Sinuses from hell<p dir="ltr">I often wonder what issue is connected to what. I mean I am very aware of my body and know when my legs are weak. I also know when the heat is getting to me. Those are both things that I can point to and say without a doubt, it's MS related.<br>
But my nose... It runs like crazy! Or it will get stuffed up and I am miserable. Either way, rarely a day goes by that sinus "something" isn't a factor in my life. I seriously don't remember a day when I didn't have to blow my nose multiple times. And yes, I take allergy medicine and about a billion other things to avoid the feeling. Trust me it is not a great life! <br>
It is seriously crazy. And I can't help but wonder is my MS part of my sinus hell?</p>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-31698469911486392042018-01-16T21:40:00.001-08:002018-01-16T21:42:46.392-08:00Stronger-2018<p dir="ltr">In 2004 my life came crashing down. The words "multiple sclerosis" back then still were such a huge long term unknown in the sense of treatment options and long term care. I saw myself with little to no options available for life... <br>
For about 5 minutes!<br>
It really never dawned on me that MS would ruin my life, just change it. I knew people that had MS and their lives had been... Forever changed. I guess it's easy to say I have always been determined not to be them.<br>
Do I have a secret? Some super medical treatment or medical therapy- Heck no!<br>
I have listened to my Doctors over the years and followed their advice (within reason). I have stuck to taking meds when needed as needed.<br>
And sure, my life isn't roses. I mean its 12:40 am and I am up typing about my MS & reading old blogs to see how things have changed or when things have bothered me the most (to write about them)... But truth is... I am pretty darn lucky!<br>
I'll take it! Leg cramp and sleepy issues and all!<br>
#MSWARRIOR</p>
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-16669205076147222762015-05-03T16:48:00.000-07:002015-05-03T16:48:01.416-07:00Head fogAfter only getting less than 3 hours of sleep last night (this morning) I ended up having a pretty functional day. Accompanying my husband to the grocery store and got my lunches packed for the week. I started dinner in the slow cooker and then helped my daughter with some much needed guidance.<br />
Then it was time to test my shoulder. Only one way to see how well my workouts have helped... I figured some bonding with my daughter over some archery way the best way to do both!<br />
Problem with full days... Fatigue creeps in quickly and head fog can be painfully real.<br />
It becomes debilitating to the point of just wanting to chill. Doesn't do well for a social life. But laying in a comfy bed, watching tv, and catching up on the news (or newsfeeds) is just what the Dr ordered!<br />
Snuggling in shifts with everyone who stops by (kids & hubby) is an added bonus. Of coarse having a dog that doesn't want to leave your side is even sweeter.<br />
Yep, I'm hoping I get a full nights rest. Cause tomorrow I've got a full day. I don't have time for head fog and I certainly don't have time for MS.<br />
I'm Made Strong...Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-68101759081518005542015-01-02T07:34:00.001-08:002015-01-02T07:34:29.546-08:00Gileyna roller coasterThe last couple months have been quite a ride. Over the last year, my Doctor has been monitoring my white blood cell count has a precaution to taking Gilenya. I have been taking it since 2008 during the FDA study and get my blood work every 3 months. This past year however, was when it really took a turn. The results has continued to fall lower and lower. Each time he would warn if they fell lower we would have to act... I would frown and hope for better results. I even researched online different ways to increase my white blood cell count, but it really didn't seem to matter. Every test the results seemed to get worse til the November test came through. All my numbers had been too low too long. And while some people on some forums argued that they could have gone lower (based on their experiences) my Doctor called it halts. He pulled me off my medication for a month and told me at the time that I might have to change medication and go to an injectable. I literally went to my car and cried. I stopped taking my medication and my weight skyrocketed out of control over the past month. I gained 15 pounds! Beyond not cool! Yet I was eating healthy!!! I was still very fatigued but at the end of the month my white blood cell count had improved so much I didn't have to go on the injectable I could return to Gileyna. <div><br></div><div>Starting taking it again.... Oh the fun! As my body is adjusting I bucking a nasty cold. It's basically a run of the mill chest cold. But the difference is I already have a decease that leaves me with a compromised immune system then add to it my medication, the perfect storm. Oh and it's flu season and I can't have a flu shot.... Ah, cough medicine and rest... Lots of rest.</div><div>Hoping my 2015 is a year of good health and happiness, but right now I am not off to the best start.</div><div><br></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-31925809321815541152014-10-03T22:07:00.001-07:002014-10-03T22:17:47.427-07:00Sick & MS Sick... Not Ebola sickI think we can all agree there are about a million levels of sick. Anyone who has kids or went to school can testify about being "sick". Then there's those really awesome days when you call your boss (so I've heard) because you are super, ah, sick, cough, hack, cough...<div>Then there's sick. There's please just let me die sick. There's- I think I'm dead sick. And my favorite- please don't let it get any worse than this- sick... (Right before it does).... </div><div><br></div><div>Oh, let's for grins and giggles add MS to the mix and have Dr's stare at medical charts for several minutes almost like a crystal ball hoping for a miracle trying to figure out what to do next. To start, no one knows how you have the original decease to start with, so your MS treatments have really been trail and error. But now, you have issues... Well, you are on a boatload of medicine (that's about as medical as I'm going to get) so shouldn't one or more of those fine medications help? No? Well, what can you take that won't interact with what you are on while at the same time provide you with relief? Oh,my oh weren't expecting the Dr to do the heavy lifting were you? Surely by now you're an expert in drugology or whatever "ology" it is that keeps you out of the morgue and away from a toxicology report... I mean doesn't WebMD supply you with everything you need to know? </div><div>If you're like me, you love the fact that most searches on there point to cancer, death, and a trip to the ER. They really should call it WebDeath or WebMDcashcow. Cause someone is making a ton of money with all the hypochondriacs that now have Ebola. I can't imagine working in an ER... You all deserve another raise.</div><div>My last white blood cell test (oh yeah total badge of honor here) was 2.5... Am I going around licking doorknobs? Hmmm, maybe I should. But no, washing hands, keeping clean, yes! Go figure.</div><div><br></div><div>Last week and going into this week, I became ill, it wasn't an "MS attack" thank Goodness! But I was seriously ill. I stayed in bed. I rested. Drank fluids. Took all the different medications (except for the one that made me feel high and dizzy). Did all the things the Dr said a person with an already crappie immune system should do... Did I flood the ER? No! Cause to be honest, there's sick.... Then there's MS sick! </div><div><br></div><div>Living life means toughing it out sometimes... Weather the storm, the rainbow is up ahead...</div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-bZ2DZ-RLsWc/VC-AgvlNXEI/AAAAAAAABws/PQFjImLkMDc/s640/blogger-image--1104560680.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://lh3.googleusercontent.com/-bZ2DZ-RLsWc/VC-AgvlNXEI/AAAAAAAABws/PQFjImLkMDc/s640/blogger-image--1104560680.jpg"></a></div><br></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-32753150305509032402014-08-25T06:44:00.000-07:002014-08-25T07:20:37.301-07:00A tiny nap wouldn't be so bad...Been a total battle lately. Health-wise I am what you would consider "a picture of good health". My MS is hanging on great! In "MS" circle talk, anyway.... Do we have a circle? Communities, Yes! But actual an circle? I'll continue...<br />
I have been trying to exercise every day. I set an alarm and say I'll exercise then! Only to hit snooze and tell myself it's a better idea to do it after work, less likely to injure myself! The work day ends and driving myself home seems to be the actual accomplishment. I actually feel relieved I made it into the driveway without adding an insurance claim to the route. Not because I'm a bad driver (reserve all comments- not that I really get any in the blog world- wonder why that is?) Anyway... I make it, and proceed to the house! With the Florida heat it has been tough this year. Seeking A/C shelter and rest is about the quickest move I'm making. AND my shoulder has been this constant source of pain since November but really kicked it into high gear in January. I mean really, are you suppose to be in pain just sleeping? Totally wrong!!! So I have spent much of my time going back and forth to Dr.s and physical therapy trying to get some kind of relief. My favorite statement... " well, you are already taking... (a medication FOR treating [name something associated with my MS] and that's a pretty high dose" Really? No kidding! I take that EVERY DAY because otherwise I wouldn't walked in here. I have taken it in climbing steps now since I was dx in 2004 [10 years mathematicians!]. Do you Mr. Medical genius know what happens to a person after several years of taking something? Yep, that's right! It doesn't work! Heck I took something that straight had me looking at throwing myself straight down a flight of stairs. I totally see how Robin Williams "happened". Very sad! So yeah, today, right now, this very minute, when asked on a form to describe my "health", I'm good. Ask me this afternoon, when my drugs have worn off and I have to drive home, and my daughter wants to do something "sports" related, and my husband thinks dinner should be on the table cause I managed to get home first, and my son needs my time for school (its open house after all), and the dogs are upset cause I am ignoring them, and the iguanas & bearded dragons are pacing because I walked into the room but didn't give the "proper" love the wanted (and they probably need fed too)... sure... I'm good. By neurology measures. No new lesions. But I am exhausted! So what measures should we go by when people ask?<br />
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We live in a world where its "weak" to be anything but "ok" or "good". And I am, health-wise. I am very grateful. I just think, there's nothing wrong with wanting a nap!<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-38521581654776076132014-08-23T10:23:00.001-07:002014-08-23T10:23:16.457-07:00Tired, hot- tired of being hot!I love when people talk about "hot flashes". Flashes. As in a starting point and an ending point. <div>For some the time lasts a lot longer than they would like, but seriously, the word end... Ah, my word is basically avoid.</div><div><br></div><div>Avoid getting hot. Meaning internally hot. Hormonaly I still have a little plumbing (not much) that should help with what most people associate "hot flashes" with. But with my MS, my "hot" issues come from a deeper underlining issue.</div><div><br></div><div>Not truly regulating temperature. Have you ever seen someone working out side for a few moments just dripping with sweat? Yeah, that's not me. I can run a 5k and look like I just stepped out of a meeting that didn't go my way- my face is red, that's it. All my "heat" just stays in my body. Creating a boil affect, often with a headache/miagrane as the grand finale. Fans, A/C, ice packs, and a dark room become my retreat. </div><div><br></div><div>My son went to take care of the lawn this morning. He had asked about weekend plans, I went out to see how things were going... He was dripping wet... I went in and got him a drink. Went out to see if I could work on my flower bed, and 5 minutes later I was back inside. It was way too hot. My dogs rushed me... Time to lay down! Rest! Yep.. Rest!</div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-GXfOoYZNkKE/U_jOAMj0vtI/AAAAAAAABwA/ZkvC98mUu7U/s640/blogger-image--175848768.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://lh5.googleusercontent.com/-GXfOoYZNkKE/U_jOAMj0vtI/AAAAAAAABwA/ZkvC98mUu7U/s640/blogger-image--175848768.jpg"></a></div><br></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-16156561161146045322014-08-18T05:13:00.001-07:002014-08-18T05:13:15.321-07:00Summer doesn't end... and that's okay, sometimesWhen I moved to Florida from Ohio in March of 2001, I left a cold snap that had left a dusting of white stuff on the ground. My son was wearing a winter jacket, I wore a sweatshirt. Finding out in 2004, after a bout of optic neuritis I had MS "heat" was not going to be my friend, and cold might not be either, I had to laugh.<br />
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I left Ohio, and moved to Florida... Hmmm... I knew the cold didn't suit me. It literally hurt and each year that would go by seemed for some reason to get worst. Little did I know my brain was a ticking time bomb.<br />
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Now, with this new "heat" thing, part of me laughed, where did I go that didn't have A/C? Oh, yeah, the ball field. I was coaching boys baseball. And my husband was coaching girls softball. I am totally aware of the backwards irony, but it worked for us. We lived at the field, and that part of my life never stopped. It just changed.<br />
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I had a 2 year old that thought that the field was her playground, so keeping her off became a more of a balancing act the first year. I think I promised more "stuff" that year than I had Erik's entire life. Liz was 2 I figured she wouldn't remember... little did I know that I would end up with a child that would keep up for any "MS" fog I ever had.<br />
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It's 10 years later and the ball field has never stopped being apart of our lives. And neither has summer.<br />
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August is where it normally starts getting cool in most of the country. Its going to be in the 90's today with a feels like temperature in 100's... That isn't cooler. <br />
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Liz tried-out with an elite softball team this past Saturday, in the heat of course, and I stayed hydrated. I've learned.<br />
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The years have taught me several things...<br />
August happens <br />
Summer doesn't really end in Florida, it only shifts<br />
...and that is okay...<br />
Missing out on life is NEVER okay<br />
Adjusting to the changes of my MS is necessary to being the very best ME<br />
and...<br />
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I am beyond blessed! <br /><br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-10300619594520080862014-07-17T07:40:00.000-07:002014-07-17T07:40:15.246-07:00He holds my hand and my heartWorking at a dental office, I was more stubborn than anything, and as the receptionist came in a third time announcing I had a phone call from my Dr.'s office, but this time putting emphasis on the fact that it was MY DOCTOR that was on the phone, I knew I had to take the call.<br />
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Annoyed, I looked at the patient we were working on (We were doing a root canal- and yes, it might have been 2004, but I can remember it like it was yesterday) and apologized (again). Leaving the room I went to our back office area.<br />
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I grabbed the phone and sort of abruptly gave the "HELLO!" as if to let him know he was now on "my time"... Sure, as if HIS time wasn't worth anything. He made a comment about me avoiding him, to which I responded I was busy, but then he quickly said he needed to see me today. I had a full schedule of patients and that just wouldn't work. Me and my priorities... He said he didn't want to review the results over the phone, and I let him know I wasn't available till Friday (it was Wednesday)... reminding him (in my head) he was still on "my time". Then he came out with it... "You have MS and we need to see you (and your husband) to talk about treatment options."<br />
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My husband... oh wow, how was I going to call him and tell him I was officially broken? That something actually was "broken" in my brain. We had been married less than 3 years, and now this, it just seemed so unfair. I knew what it meant, its a LONG TERM death sentence. It felt like right there through the phone I'd been handed a life sentence with no possibility for parole followed by the death penalty for added measure. There would be no escape. It just seemed so unfair!<br />
I called him to let him know I was leaving work, picking him up, and we had to go to my Dr's. He simply said, "OK". I kept thinking- I don't think he gets it...<br />
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We arrived and were taking back right away. I love Nurse PattyJo! Dr. Khamisani came back and although he and I always joke around, this time we were a tad more serious. Well I tried to be anyway.<br />
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He reviewed my MRI, I was relieved I had a brain, and had the proof in film form. I asked if I could keep them. (I had to find humor somewhere). We sat there as he went through everything and what it all meant.<br />
His words were just that... words.<br />
What really meant the world was sitting right next to me was the greatest man in the world. And he held my hand. As I picked a drug "choice" (he even helped joke about that to make me smile) discussing how needles would become my life, he squeezed my hand and said I would be fine.<br />
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Several years later I was selected to participate in a drug study that would in turn help approve a FDA pill drug (and get me away from the needle)... yep... he was right... I'm doing just fine.<br />
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With his hand- we were wed, and with his hand I continue my battle with MS. With his hand I sat by his side and have received my bachelors and masters. With his hand he holds my heart...<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-29802402437002528112014-06-17T08:28:00.004-07:002014-06-17T08:28:40.957-07:00Knowing betterHeaded out to an event yesterday I grabbed my water bottle, walked over to where I fill it up and made sure to put lots of ice and water in it. I then made my way. When I arrived, I climbed out of my car to a parking attendant who clearly was a volunteer that didn't volunteer. In the midst of all the "fun" of parking, my water bottle stayed in the car. (Strike one)<br />
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Walking over the sea of people I saw many familiar faces, I knew it would be a great event just based on the cause. We were celebrating the 300th habitat house for our area, what's not to celebrate? But with that comes speeches (strike two).<br />
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Standing there for over an hour, the heat really started to get to me. I fanned my self with the program as best I could. The moment I stopped I could feel my face, my cheeks literally burn up from the inside. A strange sensation, but it was clear, I was overheating. A woman was walking through the crowd handing out little tiny water bottles (I could drink 4 of those and still be thirty) and she missed me at every pass. (strike three- way OUT).<br />
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The ceremony FINALLY came to a close and the new owner opened her door. I could feel the cool air on my face as though it was an answer from above. But as everyone was rushing inside for a quick refreshing feel, it quickly was going away. The doors were being opened all over the home, the cool air was leaving faster and faster. I found the cooler of little baby waters (as I like to call them) and wanted to dump them out and climb in with the ice (I probably should have). Instead, all lady like, I reach in and grabbed just one... (I'm up to bat again at this point) Strike ONE!<br />
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I politely talk to everyone but found that EVERYONE was making it too uncomfortable too quickly and found my way back out into the heat. But not for long... I made "the rounds" got out of there glad to see people I hadn't in a while.<br />
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Heading back to my car it was all I could do to climb into my now 40 billion degree car and head back to my office. With the A/C on high I was grateful it still works like the day I got my car. My trusty water bottle was right where I left it, just completely melted. I didn't take a sip (Strike two).<br />
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I got back to my office and sat there trying to cool off, I even wore my neck cooling thing (should have worn it there- that would have required thought I guess). But the heat just never really went away. It was one of those things where I just threw myself into work and never really made time to relax and allow my body to cool... ah can you say STRIKE THREE!<br />
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As I drove home, I could already feel it coming. I felt it coming even before I left the office. But it hit HARD as I crossed the street heading to my car. Like a truck hit me, my head just screamed- WE ARE DONE!<br />
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YOU ARE OUT! Driving home was beyond painful, it was all I could do to keep my car on the road. I spoke with my husband for a good portion of it, letting him know about dinner arrangements, my day, etc. I think it was my way of survival. It was something anyway. I got to the point where I just laid my head in my hand and drove with the other. Great traveling, I know... and I know I know better. I just wanted to get home.<br />
My medication was at HOME... Yeah, I know... I know better about that too.<br />
But I did get home, took it, laid down for a brief moment with an ice pack before we had to leave for dinner.<br />
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I did make it through dinner, and I was grateful I didn't have to miss out. Because that's the biggest part about MS I HATE! I don't ever want to "MISS OUT".<br />
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Yeah, I know better, but will I continue to push it.. yeah, I will... but that's just who I am...<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-49625946446409407882014-05-12T17:37:00.001-07:002014-05-12T17:37:47.626-07:00Life changes things aren't like they were beforeSometimes it's hard to remember what life was like "before". Before I had to worry about what I drank, or how much I drank. What I ate, or if I are enough of the "right foods". Harder still is remembering not having to wonder what my day looked like when getting dressed. What would I be facing, doing, running (not physically) across, what demands. When heat and cold meant jacket, no jacket... But then again, I've always been oddly affected by temperature. Middle of summer I would wear sweatshirts and shorts, and yet argue to wear the same outfit in the middle of winter. Growing up in Northeast Ohio, it wouldn't make sense. Yet, there I was comfortable with exposed legs and a bundled "top". Who knew!<div><br></div><div>I wish I had run more when I could. Today, I am lucky when I can "run" a few minutes before having to walk fast. Some would tell me I am lucky I'm walking and I'll look back at this blog as say I remember... But I remember rock climbing with ease, rappelling like I was some kind of expert (I never was- but my Mom always encouraged my wild behavior). Horseback riding (I know anyone can do that), playing volleyball and softball- that I miss a lot. </div><div><br></div><div>Many say -well with age... To which I say- BS! There are plenty of people older than me doing much more. </div><div><br></div><div>Maybe I have become complacent, maybe part of me felt the inevitable will come so I shouldn't have so much too loose and then will be brokenhearted that it's gone. That's stupid. But in a way, it does allow me to just get by. Get by with "function". And sometimes I feel that's what I've accomplished, function. </div><div> </div><div>I hear it again and again MS patients are different. We present different and our treatments vary all over the place. I get it, and I know. I don't ever try to compare myself. At the same time it's hard not to compare myself against myself- the "before" me.</div><div><br></div><div>I live in fear of being alone, I didn't use to. I live in fear of not being understood, I never had that problem. I live in fear of no longer being the one that makes the ones around me proud, but rather ashamed and embarrassed to be around me.</div><div><span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;"><br></span></div><div>It's <span style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">quite a lot of times, before, it never was. My kids are growing up, moving on, as they should. I just fear it will be too quite and I'll be left to remember the me I was "before".</span></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-468885216103266192014-04-13T21:20:00.001-07:002014-04-13T21:20:46.297-07:00Body changesEach time I go in to see my favorite neurologist the appointment goes pretty much the same (luckily). Patty, MY nurse since before I even was diagoised with MS (I saw them first for migraines), calls my name and asks me at this point in the game if I want to be weighed... Seriously. She'll look down, ask, I look at what I'm wearing and make a decision. If I do decide to jump on and the number came up way too high (my thoughts) she'd say "well, should we go with something a couple digits lower...." God I love her! So then we leave that area, head to the room and update the actual file... I mean it's been three- four months, I might have grown a horn in that amount of time. After we have established that I really am their boring patient, she goes and gets the grand wizard, aka my Doctor. I love messing with them! <div>He comes in, mind you on a great day he weighs a buck ten and he's maybe 5'2". He was giving me a hard time at one appointment about the number of migraines and the amount of stress/work,etc. I laughed, looked straight at him and said with a perfectly straight face, "and I could still take you!" At which point he started laughing and said, " I'm glad you haven't lost your spunk, Let's go ahead and treat your migraine." Ah, yeah... Ya think! He does love me...</div><div>So now he goes through all,his questions and his normal (I call it DUI) neuro testing, has me walk, and then asks me if there is anything he's missed. This is always my favorite part, not because he asks, but because sometimes I remember things I want to talk about (hello I have a brain issue!) other times I completely forget and get to the car or worse get home and am totally annoyed I forgot. </div><div>This last appointment, I had my list. I also had printed the article I was featured in and framed for both of them as a gift. I wrote personal "thank-yous" and sat ready for my appointment. </div><div>As Patty took me back, I did climb on the scale.mi was super pleased with the work I have been doing, and Patty laughed as she captured the "awesome" progress. Dang, now I have to keep that up! She took me back, ask me for my updates, that's when I gave her the frame...</div><div>Appointment went well,questions got answered, MRI got ordered. I was very pleased when the results came back... 10 years and nothing new, nothing larger. </div><div>There are days when I feel awesome. Like I could run miles. Then there are days when I wish they would just end. The sheer pain alone is beyond anything I could possibly explain, and then there's "food". Eating this makes me feel this way, eating that makes me feel that way... Tired... Oh please! That's just half the story. My whole body feels as though it can't move because it's so tired, I have to rest, it's all I can so, yet my mind is going 1000 miles a minute. So not right! So then what, I get rest, and then I feel great, and I want to RUN.... How on earth do you possibly explain that?</div><div>Yeah... My body, not always my friend!</div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-5596358248306473272014-03-13T17:48:00.001-07:002014-03-13T17:48:53.335-07:00Completely honoredFacing MS has been something I have done head on. Well maybe that isn't entirely true. There have been times when I refused to accept anything is "wrong" with me, I still do to an extent. I know I have limitations, but I refuse to allow those to dictate who I am or what I am capable of. <div><br></div><div>This week, as an alumni, my journey was featured in an article for their magazine <a href="http://www.phoenix.edu/forward/community/2014/03/chronic-ms-couldnt-stop-alums-graduation-walk.html?inticid=phxfwd-weekly-recap:4:email:alums-graduation-walk" style="font-family: 'Helvetica Neue Light', HelveticaNeue-Light, helvetica, arial, sans-serif;">http://www.phoenix.edu/forward/community/2014/03/chronic-ms-couldnt-stop-alums-graduation-walk.html?inticid=phxfwd-weekly-recap:4:email:alums-graduation-walk</a> . My biggest take away is the honor of representing both my school and the MS community. </div><div><br></div><div>I am here! I didn't crawl into bed and quit! Nope, I'm not done, I've got lots to do... The best is yet to come! 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Many people ask me- side affects? To which I unknowingly reply- NOPE!<br />
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Then I head to my AWESOME (and I do mean that- just read any of my other blogs) Doctor. So in terms of MS and it's ugly head my treatment currently looks like this:<br />
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<li>new lesions since original diagnosis... <b><i>NONE</i></b>. </li>
<li>current lesion growth- one has actually gotten smaller (now this could have been from <a href="http://www.copaxone.com/" target="_blank">Copaxone</a> use since 2004 diagnosis) the other lesions have NOT grown.</li>
<li>Relapses- <b><i>NONE.</i></b></li>
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<b style="font-style: italic;">Changes in Issues- </b> This is where the REAL information lands!<br />
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<li>Leg spasms- 2004- I really did think I was going insane, but nope- it was just my MS telling me I was working too hard. Sleep was no help cause I'd lay there and want to get up... AH! so what? One of the first drugs to enter my daily routine Baclofen 10 mg which was increased as needed along with the times of day (morning and night). Now- I'm at 20 mg tablets and I am allowed up to THREE tablets TWICE A DAY! Yeah... But it does help - on a side note- I did try Lyrica- for 6 months when there was a question as to if the Baclofen was just not helping (back around 2007). Let's just say those warnings at the end of the commercial are there for a reason- heed warnings, and don't do any headers off any bridges!</li>
<li>Fatigue- 2005- Started with Provigil 100 mg, (yeah ha!) moved to 200 mg- I know you all saw that one coming! Then thanks to the FDA saying HEY WAIT A MINUTE!!! 2010- Nuvigil- 250 mg (cheaper co-payment)- as in first one was $35 a month, the second is $15 a month!</li>
<li>White Blood Cells (WBC)- This is where the meat of this "post" lands. I would say I am healthy. Others may argue. I looked back at my actual "sick" days last year and was pretty impressed with myself! Not bad! Since I battle with migraines as well, MS, hasn't really slowed me down. BUT my blood-work and some other issues tell another story. </li>
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My latest white blood cell count was 4. An improvement, but not good enough (for my Doctor who thrives on perfection). Since November I have ridden the WBC roller-coaster. Nov- 3.5, Dec- 3.7, Jan 3.8, Feb-4. I really do study for that stupid test, but I'm not good at tests I can't cheat, even a little on. Bummer!<br />
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So what has been the result of a plummeted WBC you may ask? Well THANKFULLY (since I can't have the flu shot) I haven't gotten "sick". I haven't come down with any crazy illnesses. And as people were passing along all sorts of nastiness at my work-place (please stay home when you are sick), I managed to slide through. BUT not without other issues.<br />
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If you have been following me for any length of time, you'll know in 2009 I had a major "female" related surgery. Well, without going in to great details, I am GLAD at 37 I am not going into a "mid-life" menopause just yet... But with my extremely low WBC it has caused all sorts of havoc on my body's ability to just do the things that bodies do on their own.<br />
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Fortunately, I have great Doctors! So after a trip to my other Doctor and great discussion, she plotted a long-term course for long-term happiness. (I think I tip-toed through that as best as possible). But of course it did mean two new prescriptions added to my already great list!<br />
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When I'm asked "are you taking anything" by "outsiders" for routine tests or anything, I just laugh. "Why, yes, yes I am!" Half the medications they can't spell, and most of them they have no clue what they are or what they do. I love when they pull out the drug book to make sure they aren't about to kill me. Look, my Doctor (who by the way has my complete drug list too) ordered the test the way he (or sometimes she) wants it, so I'm pretty sure you aren't going to find anything that indicates "death".<br />
I hand over a list, with all the details now, I stopped writing all of the information. I mean seriously... That's alot of stuff! And most of the time they don't look at it anyway. Sometimes I sneak silly things in just to see/test them. For instance... Baclofen 20mg 3 tabs 2x times, Topomax 100mg 1 tab 2 times, Hugs 2-3 3x times, Gileyna .5 mg 1 tab, Twix 2 bars 1- Daily, Nuvigil 250 mg- 1 tab, Girl Scout cookies- 1 row, sleeve, box- as needed, Vitamin D- 5000IU, Multi Vitamin- Daily, ProBiotic- Daily<br />
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You would be SHOCKED how many times they look over my "medications" and ask-<br />
"Is this the complete list?"<br />
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"okay, great. What brings you in today?"<br />
-Well it certainly isn't the Hugs, Girl Scout cookies, or the Twix! And they will look at me like I have horns coming out of my head... Till I laugh and say... "never mind...."<br />
So while I continue to fight the numbers- cause I really do enjoy having MS for the few minutes it takes me to take my medication (that's what I always tell myself), I really do need to get my WBC up so I can make Dr. K happy and get him off my back! He may be a little guy (I can still take him!), but he makes sure I feel the weight of his pressure to make sure I am okay (which is a good thing!). Cause otherwise... who knows... I would just run wild!<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-15592211926917775602013-12-23T23:08:00.002-08:002013-12-23T23:08:57.499-08:00The month is gone?It's December 24... I noticed that I last wrote like well beyond a month and a 5k ago. Yeah, a 5k! I ran/walked a 5k because I'm that girl. The girl who "forgets" she has limits. The girl who just wakes up and decides she's going on a hike- yeah- that girl. But not without my ice vest during, and after. And it did come in handy! But that was then...<br />
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This month has been hard. A total emotional roller coaster ride filled with ups and downs. I went to my Neuro and my vitals were great (including my weight- for a change), only to get my blood work back a few days later. My white blood cells were at the lowest he'd allow for me to be among the "living" as in not under some form of serious treatment... Yikes! I totally didn't even like the sound of that. So I did what I normally do, I ignored him. He told me he wanted blood work every month for the next 6 months (he's blaming my medication- it very well could be), and if no improvement, well, we'll drop back and punt. I don't see him as much of a kicker and I really see this as more of a Charlie Brown episode, so since I LOVE my computer anyone who knows me know what I did next. Yep... lots of research to find ways to safely raise my white blood cells. I wasn't about to "fail" any more tests. <br />
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I do need to get better at keeping myself informed (thus this blog) at what I'm up to. And amusing the rest of the world in the process<br />
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It's hard to believe I have really been so bad at keeping track, but then again, we are talking about an issue that involves my brain, so not a complete shocker. Note to self... Blog better. Ha! Well, I hope everyone has a wonderful holiday! You deserve it.<br />
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Cause behind the scenes... MS affects us all!<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-48169278520218256792013-11-07T11:57:00.003-08:002013-11-07T11:57:25.021-08:00No love for that pink bunny!Remember all those energizer bunny commercials? "Nothing beats an energizer... they keep going, and going..." I've got a hammer that says otherwise! Too much? <br />
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This is about the time of day where one of two things happen- 1) my boss shows up with a "great idea" for a project that "won't take that long" (try a couple days or weeks) or 2) my head all but whips back till my neck realizes it's still attached to the rest of my body. While convenient on so many levels (I probably would leave it around the house), its not exactly the greatest sensation. "Forced" whiplash from a wreck is one thing, but telling people you have a "sore neck" because you fell asleep gets you no love. <br />
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Sleep takes on new meaning in the world of MS. The world of sleep will argue that there is such thing as too much and then too little. Well, when you add in MS- take all the "sleep studies" on the "correct number needed" and THROW that data right out the window! It's crap! There are days when I sleep 2-3 hours and I function like a champ! Other times- complete zombie! Then there are times when I get 16 hours of sleep (I am so not joking- my husband sees the need for my sleep and threatens the kids with death if they bother me). I awake from my hibernation as though I had just gone to bed. Other times I wake totally refreshed ready to roof the house, re-pave the driveway, and clean the house top to bottom...<br />
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People will say, in a whinny voice that is like nails on the chalk board, that I should try to go to bed at the same time and get up at the same time. Yep! I've done that... result- one day I wake up nice and refreshed, another (in a weeks time) I wake up as if I never went to bed... <br />
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Totally crazy! <br />
The final result- this long ranting blog that probably makes no sense other than to other MS'ers, and maybe some young mothers that would love nothing more than to get one full night of sleep! (NyQuil does work!) The key is YOU take it, not the kids! Who knows how they are through the night, but hey two key lessons are learned! 1) You can sleep through the night 2) They will survive all night without seeing you and you might be a happier person to be around. - On a side note- don't get cheap diapers and for God's sake don't give your bundle of joy the largest meal of the day right before bedtime. You will learn what an artist you have in your home, at the same time you will learn your gag reflex potential. Love will be tested! Spare yourself! Or purchase a really good fire pit and pressure washer, and "carpet cleaner"... sheets sometimes can't be saved, it happens. And when you are washing those walls off- you'll thank me! Just remember- wash- then carpet cleaner... No one will ever know ;)<br />
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Maybe I do need a nap. If I were President- we wouldn't quit nap time in preschool or kindergarten. I think that's why we have all the issues in schools and the workplace- we got away from nap time. Our brains need a "time-out", we shouldn't fight it... After all we aren't an energizer bunny!<br />
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(<a href="http://ebooktest.wordpress.com/2009/10/13/touch-will-change-everything/">http://ebooktest.wordpress.com/2009/10/13/touch-will-change-everything/</a>)Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-83923291851102016922013-10-28T10:54:00.001-07:002013-10-28T11:15:18.129-07:00To visit or not to visit... co-pays that is the questionFor anyone following the latest and greatest news from around the globe in the United States, recently the health care system has been in an overhaul of sorts to cover more people and care for more conditions. Several Americans have fallen "between the cracks" and left uninsured or in some cases uninsurable. Starting excellent jobs that offer benefits (sounds great on paper) until that all to familiar fine print. Pre-existing conditions. <br />
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To visit a primary care doctor under my plan I pay $20, that price goes to $30 to see my Neurologist. Oddly enough, when I go to the office, they ask for $20, then I receive a bill for the other $10... I always argue with them and tell them it costs $30 and the tell me they "contacted my insurance..." whatever! Anyway, since I am suppose to see my Neurologist ever 6 months (and have a prescription that now requires it - thanks federal government for making me to be the bad person) it is now a minimum of $60 a year, and another $40 a year to see my primary (That doctor wants to see me twice a year as well).<br />
Doctor fees- With insurance- $100 (not getting sick and going in extra)- GOD ONLY KNOWS the costs without!<br />
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Multiple sclerosis is not cheap. It not only is a decease that hides itself like a chameleon often causing Dr.s to all but throw darts trying to come up with a diagnosis from the start, but once discovered treatment takes on a whole new life. There isn't just one symptom. So there isn't just one magic pill. <br />
Unlike diabetics who are treated with a insulin or a pill, or people with high blood pressure (although many would argue most of these people have both and are give a variety of combined medication to thwart their decease), MS has several different areas that are treated in many different ways.<br />
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MS Treatment- Currently there are so many options on the market. This isn't your Mama's MS anymore! We are truly the blessed generation and I am fully aware of that! Even since my diagnosis when my options were 1)flu for the weekend, 2) flu every few days, or 3) needle every day and spin the wheel with reactions. Believe it or not I did go with option 3 at the time! I'm not good with the flu! But before long pills were making their way through the FDA studies, and I myself found my way into one of the final phases. Now having been on Gilenya for a number of years, I really am grateful to all that research. But cost... whew! Gilenya-WITH insurance $50 (Gilenya Go does offer their program, but can be tricky because of insurance company "reduced payment rules")- <strong>$4672.27 without!</strong><br />
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Let's look at fatigue. I love the argument, if you are tired just sleep. If I slept every time I "felt" tired I wouldn't work. What's worse is I go back and forth from bouts of beyond tire to two three days of total insomnia. Nothing says "WHAT DO YOU WANT!" like a woman that hasn't slept for two-three days... So for fatigue... yep, take a pill for that! <br />
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Nuvigil- WITH insurance $50 (pending on your insurance you may qualify for a discount card which could allow you to pay as little as $5 a month- to help you stay awake- well at least long enough to finish this blog).- <strong>$476.68 without insurance</strong><br />
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Leg/muscle spasms (AKA restless leg)- Now this is one of my favorites. Who doesn't love that "I want to run" feeling at 2:00 am? I mean everyone loves being tucked in their warm bed only to bust up wide awake and run in the cold air until their legs feel better. No? Yeah, me neither! So of course a conversation with my Doctor later and I tired a few things. And by a few things I mean TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR! When you hear the side effect warnings at the end of the those commercials about suicidal thoughts- there's a reason! It wasn't because they asked me, but maybe they should have. So make sure with ANY drug you tell your Doctor your feelings (or tell him your feelings regardless). I tell him I don't like the room I'm in because the colors aren't right, but then he knows I'm doing well. So I'm back... So for this wonderfully delightful issue I take Baclofen- With insurance $15. (pending on the amount WalMart and other places do allow discounts- I take too many pills a month to qualify).<strong> $24.65- Without insurance (may be cheaper with discount plan)</strong><br />
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Now some will argue they absolutely are related others will say one has nothing to do with the other, but I suffer from migraines. And actually I had my neurologist in place because he was already treating me for them. Is there a connection? Maybe. But I do know that heading to the pharmacy hits the wallet! My Replax which is govern by my insurance NOT my Doctor is limited to 4 pills a month. So despite my Doctor telling me how I can take it, my insurance says I can only have 4 migraines a month that require "that" kind of treatment... the rest- well I can suffer I suppose... Relpax- with insurance $50 (discount card is available- but again certain insurance companies/groups will not allow you to use them).<strong> $129.61- without insurance</strong><br />
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But don't worry! My Doctor doesn't leave me hanging. He is a very preventative type of Doctor. He has had be on Topamax long before people started talking about it. (I thought it was funny). And when they released the generic, I really smiled. Topirmate- $15- <strong>$17.05 without insurance</strong><br />
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Speaking of preventative, when I first started seeing my Doctor one of the first things he suggested was to make sure I was taking a good multi-vitamin (seemed easy enough) and to add 5000 Iu of Vitamin D. (The Sun?) I laughed! I live in Florida! Really? Can't I just go stand outside for 15-20 minutes? He asked if I wear sunscreen. Well of course, I'm not stupid! He smiled, take the vitamins. So several years later (this was back in 2004), seems this Doctor really has my best health in mind.<br />
Vitamins (always wait for sales) $30-40 total<br />
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So if you were keeping track, yes that is $215 a month in prescriptions and vitamins. GOD forbid I get sick! Speaking of sick... I (and with my husbands help) self diagnosed my sinus issues (that were causing me to get so incredibility ill) and with the help of another totally government controlled over the counter medication... 24 hour sudifed max... I can breath clearly now... the snot is gone! I do have to take it every day, but oh what a relief it is. It only comes in 10 day packets, you can only purchase one packet at a time (from what I understand it can be used to make other stuff- DON'T ASK ME- I am CLUELESS!) So I play by the rules and pay my $9.89- (plus tax- God Bless America). Breathing-$43.33 a month- OUCH!<br />
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$257.33 monthly survival combined with $100 dollars for the yearly doctor visit costs... and don't get me started when the words "MRI" come up and my deductible come into play!<br />
<strong>$5320.26- without insurance and NO Doctor visits figured in...</strong><br />
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So the question always arises when something doesn't seem quite right... to visit or wait? Do I save my money, and just track what's going on and hope it doesn't get worse? When do I know its "too late"? How do I make the most of my money, since going in sometimes feels like I was only there to "pay at the door"? How can I leave and feel truly valued for more than my pocketbook?<br />
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The truth is- you can't! You can't have those answers! The relationship between you and your doctor needs to be strong enough that you KNOW the answers. You know the value of picking up the phone, and you Dr knows when to "talk to you" (I know seems foreign) verses when to see you. Often, just talking through some important factors can set you at easy. You forgot he/she told you that eating after ___ was no longer a good idea? Watch Gremlins! Or that drinking too much caffeine not only affects your ability to sleep, but does mess with those "running legs"... That "phone call" may be all that's needed, or it may be an indicator of some more underlining issues that should be addressed. What do you mean you haven't "FELT" your foot in over a month? <br />
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Conversations are a two way street, but make sure you are always starting the conversation, and for goodness sake, make sure you are both on the same road!<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-70469026540529301962013-10-17T05:54:00.003-07:002013-10-17T05:54:32.790-07:00Sharing the dream of healthOne day soon we will wake-up when we feel like it, or when the alarm clock says its time to get up, cause we have work and snooze really isn't an option. There will no longer be a drug fog in the morning, or a brain fog period that reminds us of our illness. Instead, we will rise and just go about our day. No pain, no issues, no suffering.<br />
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Yep, that's my dream of health...<br />
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Till then, I will continue to wake several times a night, taking something in the middle of the night to get me through. Then waking to the sound of my alarm, reminding me I have work, and struggling to get myself out of bed. Once I am finally out of bed, take a mouthful of pills to "keep me healthy" or just counteract what one pill does because of another pill. Then get dressed (I know the visual is alarming), eat (or in my case drink a protein vitamin smoothie) and head to work. At some point during this routine I wake up. I do feed my dragons and my dogs, taking the dogs outside (never mixing up the two chores). And check on the kids.<br />
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At work, I realize that if I could have caffeine life may be better... or not. But either way, I'm tired and my day is long. What time is nap time? Oh, that's right I "grew up" I don't get nap time any more. Stupid rules! If I were president.....<br />
Late night meeting (or softball, or something), then home... dinner... hopefully! Time for more medication. Already! Then my comfy bed!<br />
Ah! Yep, I get to do this all over again tomorrow, cause Behind the scenes of MS, life looks "easy" but it hardly ever is!<br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-31508540085789028302013-10-14T09:04:00.002-07:002013-10-14T09:06:16.306-07:00Nagging Leg painHaving missed most of Thursday, and all of Friday, I had to laugh (to myself of course) coming into the office this morning with my calf wrapped in an ace bandage. For the record, it stopped helping around 10, the throbbing jumped up the volume and has gotten worse since. (BOO). Anyhoo... I went into my co-workers office to ask her a question (having not really been here since Wednesday) and she says, "you have something wrong with your leg"? What I wanted to say was, "no, this is the latest fashion trend, all the cool people are doing it!" But instead I told her the truth. What happened next never surprises me. Now I am the only one (to my knowledge) in the building that has MS. I do not currently have handicap parking (in time grasshopper), and while I do/can have several accommodations, I don't really take advantage of any, currently. I did for school. <br />
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I do use FMLA, but even that I tend to use very sparingly. Not because I am in denial (don't need to even go there!), but because I rarely need to be out because of my MS/ and or migraines. I am able to keep both very well maintained. When I am "out", I am OUT! The term "sick" always cracks me up. I don't have an immune system, the medication I am on (Gileyna), doesn't help. So getting a bug is caused from what? Good question! One would say its from my low immune tolerance caused by my MS (instant line to FMLA) others would say people get colds, that's life, that's why you have sick time- not protected under FMLA. But while most people recover from a cold in a day or two, I do not! <br />
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That brings me back to my leg pain. I started thinking about it and of course what better method to really hone in on a date than my blog. For those that follow, I mean it when I say I really do blog "Behind the scenes" to not only let it be known what goes on behind my awesome smile, but so I can keep track. For the last several years when I would be asked when I found out I had MS I would instantly say October, 2005! It wasn't until recently (moving to our new house), I came across copies of my initial MRI's from that fateful month... in 2004. The 2005 MRI's that I had a copy of and I always used as my "date" were actually my one year progress follow-up. Everything I thought, timewise, shifted! Crazy! So with my leg pain, its like anything else, the Dr will ask, how long has this been really bothering you? I started looking through and noticed, a wow, a while! <br />
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Now I have been taking Baclofen for leg spasms for ah like ever. So I think a part of me has written a large part of the pain off to really bad spasms. I mean, what is the the difference between pain and spasm? They both hurt. Isn't a spasm pain? So how would you know if a leg spasm pain is more pain? Not to mention the question- how long has it been like this? I did mention the "pain" at my last appointment- 3 months ago and I have mentioned it in the past. The answer came at looking at my Baclofen prescription, which is already crazy high. For the record that makes you sleepily and I take something for fatigue already... so I continue in PAIN, not so much a spasm, although who knows. I do know this, I like to think of myself as a tad bit more observant to those around me (or those that don't show up for a couple of days)...<br />
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Just my thoughts from behind the scenes of MS, doing battle- kicking butt and taking names (left leg still works!)<br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3143395112781511891.post-39686075752561599562013-10-11T14:50:00.001-07:002013-10-11T14:51:30.197-07:00ResourcesMy heart warms as more and more communities are coming together to support each other in the battle of find a cure for what ails us. So often people act as though if you support one group it will come at the cost of another. What most fail to understand is that often so many issues mirror others and that is what causes Dr.s to delay giving correct diagnosis. Image being told you could have a brain tumor or MS. Which would you want? Really? I'm being serious! While one could be serious enough to kill you during the treatment, the other has no cure and is a long-term sometimes painfull reminder of no hope. Hmm... Possible death or life of no hope. Who would've pick the tumor? Yeah that was me back in 2004! <div>I can still hear myself immediately after the MRI, looking at the technition and saying, "so I've got a big grapefruit tumor right?" He looked at me like I was nuts. I mean who serious prays for a tumor, yeah this girl! But there I was rationalizing that an ice cream scooper, scar, flowers, and some gifts (people better get me gifts if I'm getting my head cut) later I'd be back to me. I figured I'd even through in a case of amnesia saying I had no clue what a dishwasher, vacuum cleaner, or broom was... Then I figured people knew I was back! Oh well! But alas... As the story goes, no grapefruit! </div><div>I am still amazed to this day how some illnesses are "rated". I call it traction. I would never look at someone and say oh you ONLY have.... Seriously? I don't have it so how could I know what they have to down play it? Unless they are complaining about getting glue rather than stitches. At that point, seeing my scars from stitches gone bad that had to be stapled, yet glue... Shut up! So when you've been there, walked a mile in there shoes, then yes, you get it. But if you have no clue what it's like to depend on people to help you to the bathroom (I only have because of surgeries but not regularly) then I suggest not telling people you know how they feel. If you have no idea or the concept of fighting to stay awake due to horrible fatigue, battling numbness, or having pain one day that's so intense you just cry only for it to be gone a few days later- then you don't know what it's like to live Behind the scenes of MS.</div><div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;"><a href="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-MmdN_dtvBMw/UlhyuDK5OLI/AAAAAAAAAy8/2J_YoVZf-bk/s640/blogger-image-875897264.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://lh6.googleusercontent.com/-MmdN_dtvBMw/UlhyuDK5OLI/AAAAAAAAAy8/2J_YoVZf-bk/s640/blogger-image-875897264.jpg"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both;">But I'm a warrior, so I'm not going anywhere!</div><br></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13473654180755733163noreply@blogger.com0